When Irish Eyes are Smiling
Charles the Gardner-It’s time to acknowledge a job well done.
Charles is the “old-time” gardener everyone would like to have tending their garden. He is a treasure of the past, knowing when to plant which bulbs where, the importance of cutting off the dead pods on the crape myrtle before the next bloom, and what’s ailing any plant just by looking at it.
Today the term “gardener” is often misunderstood and undervalued and I hesitate somewhat in describing him as a gardener, because he is SO MUCH MORE!
Unfortunately, Charles and I don’t see each other more than 3 or 4 times a year, but I’m always informed of his comings and goings by the growers we both purchase our plants from. On the occasions we do bump into each other, however, only minutes into our greeting our conversation automatically turns to the first blooming plants in view and he will always mention the next tree or shrub he is looking forward to seeing in bloom in the next upcoming season. The last time I saw Charles was in mid March. He had just loaded his truck with an impressive number of delphiniums and ranunculus for a client and was, in his words, “looking forward to planting these beauties” that very afternoon. The planting area was already prepared, he informed me. “The delphiniums”, he said, “ would be planted amongst the informal spirea, yarrow and iceberg roses”.” And the ranunculus, well,” he said, with such certainty in his voice that I wouldn’t have dared to question his decision, “they always look their best planted en mass in a circular bed of candytuft.” His hands all the while painting out the location of each plant variety – Charles talks about his plants with the same affection some people talk about their grandchildren!
After 30 years of gardening experience this Irishman from Donegal is in the enviable position of choosing his own clients – although he has never said this directly to me – I know it to be true. He reserves 3 days of his week to maintain several very big homes in an exclusive part of town and the other 3 days for landscaping and planting for his other clients and referrals. Charles says he never tires of his work because everyday, there is something new to appreciate and, in his line of work, no two days are ever alike. “Seeing the new buds appear on a favorite shrub or tree,” he says, “and knowing when you come back again in a few days time it will be in full bloom, that is a feeling that never gets old.”
He readily admits that over the years some of his plantings have given him a little more grief than others in getting established, “but you need patience,” he said in his strong Irish brogue. “Patience is the one thing nature teaches you when working with plant life – and saying a few Hail Mary’s, of course, doesn’t hurt either!”
Charles experienced long ago the spiritual bond that connects man and nature and this is what I meant when I said Charles is not “just” a gardener. He brings so much more to his work, and reaps the many rewards, too! As I left him that afternoon, I reminded myself to take heed of his good-natured advice. Herman Hesse, the German author and poet said, “Patience is the hardest thing in life to learn, but the most important.” I wanted to feel the same joy and wonder that Charles displayed on seeing the first delphiniums appear in the cool of February and our colorful neighboring ranunculus which remind us of the approaching spring in March.
I can’t wait to see the magnolias in bloom!
